Revenge Porn is NEVER Okay! (Sorry Rob)

So the world was left highly entertained this week with all kardashian fans eagerly refreshing Instagram and twitter while eating popcorn watching Rob Kardashians Meltdown unfold.

While I do not condon what Blac Chyna did, I believe the manner in which he dealt with it was disrespectful and wrong. I am sure he was upset and angry and believe me I would be too.


However the fact of the matter is it is never okay to use photos a woman has shared with you as a weapon against her. We are in a world filled with technology meaning sexting is very much a normal thing. (the reason many people used snapchat in the beginning in my opinion)
But let’s get something straight, If a woman shares pictures of her sexy parts with you, 1. You should be honoured and 2. They should be for you eyes only. And to share them publicly or among a select group of people is disrespectful to her and says a lot about your character.

She trusted you is the bottom line here and you betrayed that trust.

Now I am not a Kardashian expert and I do not not know the context in which Blac Chyna ย sent those photos, one thing for sure. No matter WHAT she did wrong those photos should not have been shared publicly to shame her. That sends a message that if a women hurts you it is okay o humiliate in whatever way you want. And that is simply not the way hints are done!

At the end of the day your actions can have a lasting impact on that person, their career and their life. And it is not your right to ruin their career or life for them.

We all make mistakes but we do not deserve to feel violated and victimised as a result. I feel Rob was really hard done by and was taken advantage of. He has every right to be angry and hurt but he dealt with those emotions in the wrong way!

You have a daughter Rob and you would not like if a man did to your daughter, what you have done to her mother.

‘Revenge Porn’ covers the online posting of sexually explicit visual material, without the consent of the person portrayed. This includes photographs and video clips.

For the video version of this rant take a look see Here.

If you or someone you know have been affected by Revenge Porn you can find information and adviceย Here.

Nicole ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿผ

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